I. What is a Crisis?
Crisis is from originally a Greek word having the root krino which means to separate. It is a point of time which has reached its height, which must soon terminate; it is a turning point. To be in crisis therefore is to be in that point in time which is a turning point. One has to separate or decide from one to another; from one attachment, one perspective, one point of view to another.
II. Whether it is something good or bad?
It seems it is bad because it causes pain, anxiety, anguish, a certain feeling of insecurity. On the other hand, we cannot do away with crises. It is part of growth. When a child starts to walk and starts wearing shoes, at a certain point of time, he will enjoy those shoes; but when his or her feet will grow, he/she will experience pain. This pain when it gets to its heights is a crisis. The child has reach its turning point to “separate” or decide to wear the shoes or not. If she likes the shoes very much and becomes attached to the shoes, she will continue to feel the pain. Understandably, she needs another pair of shoes. Therefore he/she has to forego the old pair of shoes for another one. But one cannot decide without undergoing this pain, this crisis.
Here we see that the crises therefore opens the door to something positive, towards growth, towards decision, towards detachment – it is something good.
III. Origin of Crises
Its origin therefore, without touching other crises which could be invented, is because we are living beings. We are all growing physically and spiritually. We cannot do away with it. One has rather to face it and confront it rather than evade it.
Other crises however comes when we have unclear goals in our life. Basically our basic goal is to know God, to love Him and to serve Him. We come to know God as students in theology not only through natural reason or to nature but also through revelation.
Pope John Paul II in his book “Be not afraid” expresses that: “Revelation is ‘God communicating him-self’. It thus possesses the character of a gift or a grace: a person-to-person gift, in the communion of persons. A perfectly gratuitous free gift which cannot be explained by anything but love.” This is on the part of God. What about on the part of man?
The Pope answered: ‘man entrusts himself to God by the obedience of faith’, one must see, if only indirectly, the thought that faith, as response to the revelation by which God ‘gives himself to man’, implies through its internal dynamism a reciprocal gift on the part of man, who in a way ‘also gives himself to God’. This gift of Oneself is the profoundest and most personal structure of faith.
To know God therefore necessarily entails loving Him and to love Him to offer one’s life for Him – as a gift so that the gift of self-revelation of God could be reciprocated. So our catechism would tell us then at the last why did God created man: is to serve Him by a sincere gift of oneself.
This is the revealed purpose of man as taught to us by the Magisterium. Now, if man deviates from this end, necessarily also he will encounter a crises. It is like having an impacted tooth or an in grown nail growing abnormally in our mount or foot. Then we feel the pain.
This is also true to a spiritual crises. When we deviate from our goal to which God has created us, that is, when we would rather love things, money or persons more than God, then inevitable we will encounter a crises in our lives. For St. Augustine, our hearts are restless. . . . as if to say, it will be always be anxious, disturbed. . . until it rests on you God.
This is also true if we unknowingly, we don’t have clear grasp of our final goals and we are stranded in temporal goals.
IV. How can to cope with crisis.
First, let us make a clarification. To cope here does not mean to remain in crisis and not being able to overcome it.
A. To renew one’s choice of God.
As we have said, crisis comes when one has unclarified, or deviated goals in ones life. One has therefore to decide. Decision means to cut, to separate, to be converted. It is a time to evaluate our values and put it straight. All other values are relative to the truth and the love of God. All things pass away, as the Book of Wisdom says, vanity of vanities. When we stick to a value which is very relative, then we meet a crises: to solve it, is again to place God as the first in our lives who is absolute has the highest absolute value. All the other values are in a sense, subservient to this highest value. The first point therefore which I would like to stress when we encounter a crises, when everything seems to crumble down is to redirect our lives to the Absolute. It is to be again converted to God. Conversion is not a one-event reality. It goes with the process of your growth.
To cope with crises therefore is to be converted. It is both a gift and an invitation to really be what we are supposed to be – to know God, to love Him and to serve Him.
Let me give you now some points in order to cope with crises, which really means some ways to understand what it means, through a crises, to be converted towards God.
B. “To become a Child”
The metaphor “becoming a child’ (Mk 1O;15; Lk 18:17) presents us one way of understanding conversion towards the overcoming of any crises:
Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the Kingdom of God like a child will not enter it (Mk 10:15).
Without entering into the social place of children during the time of Jesus, by promising the Kingdom to children, Jesus challenged contemporary theological thinking on merit, reward and the entire patriarchal society by declaring that the child’s incapacity to earn the Kingdom was its greatest asset. Being “like a child” means one has nothing to give and nothing to show ill order to gain the Kingdom. It means a helplessness, a being without any claim of deserving or earning the Kingdom. The child has full trust to his father, on the love of his father, that whatever happens, he is confident and sure that his father will always love him. Of course, it does not mean that Jesus advocate childishness or put forward a naively romanticizing attitude towards children
The child imagery opens up a vast array of Kingdom qualities; trust, humility, obedience, a forgiving spirit, as well as a helplessness and dependence. The Kingdom “belongs” to the children in the sense that children appreciate a gift as an absolute, something which they know they could not have earned or deserved.
“Becoming a child” is the precondition to cope with crises and be converted towards a kind of entry into the Kingdom. Jesus asks those who want to follow him to take an immediate and all-important step. We are asked to abandon false values such as status, power and wealth. These values are signs of an inauthentic being, and barriers to entering the Kingdom of God. In the Sermon on the Mount Jesus makes it quite clear that they are the three great barriers we have to overcome to understand Jesus and the Kingdom of God.
Conversion requires that we humble ourselves, get rid of Our self-given importance which is measured on the basis of worldly values. Rather we are asked to find our true vocation in obedient service of God. In so doing we become one with Jesus. We become his disciples “Being a child” indicates more than a change of direction. It implies a new life and a rebirth as expressed explicitly’ in this Johannine imagery:
Jesus answered and said to him, “Amen, Amen, I say to YOU no One can enter the Kingdom of God without being born from above. Nicodemus said to him, “How can a person Once grown old he born again? Surely he cannot re-enter his mother’s womb and be born again, can he? ” Jesus answered “Amen, Amen, 1 say to you, no one can enter the kingdom of God Without being born of water and Spirit” (Jn 3:3-5).
Jesus’ demand of “becoming a child” expresses the necessity for us to make a new beginning, to show a new responsiveness and Openness to God and other people. We are asked to learn and re-learn the ways of God.
C. To let the Holy Spirit help you
We have received the Holy Spirit during our baptism and it is already in us. Only it is dormant. When crises comes, let us make it more active inside us. We are capable of overcoming all the crises that we met or will meet.
In the Gospel of John Jesus employs the image of a well to explain what conversion towards the Kingdom could mean from any crises.
(Jn 4:7-15 the Samaritan woman at the well). 4:7 A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” 4:8 His disciples had gone into the town to buy food. 4:9 * The Samaritan woman said to him, “How can you, a Jew, ask me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?” (For Jews use nothing in common with Samaritans.)
Water here becomes a symbol for the Holy Spirit who dwells in the depth of each human person. The prospect that Jesus holds out to the woman, that he could give her water that would become a spring in her, is first of all an invitation to become a disciple of his. He is saying to her, “Let the water I can give into your life.” Jesus was referring here to the Spirit that those who opened themselves to him and his words would receive.
If anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink. He who believes in me, from within him shall flow rivers of living water. “He was referring to the Spirit which those who came to believe in him were to receive. For there was as yet no Spirit, since Jesus had not been glorified (Jn 7:37-39).
Only Jesus could give the woman the life-giving water for which she was really searching. According to rabbinic teaching: ‘The disciple who is beginning is like a well that can give only water it has received, but the more advanced disciple becomes like a spring that gives living water.” Jesus is telling the woman, if you follow me you will not only be filled with life-giving water but you yourself will become a spring that will never run dry.
Conversion here means to let the life-giving waters of the Holy Spirit well up from within us and bring us to life. In Luke 17:20-21 Jesus speaks about the Kingdom not as coming in signs and wonders but as the Kingdom “within us.” The early Church Fathers understood this to mean the Kingdom is within our reach; it is so close and intimate that we can take hold of it if we really want to.
The kingdom of God is among us. Conversion towards the Kingdom is conversion always towards the brother. When one stops loving, which is the real purpose for which he was made, he will encounter a crisis sooner or later.
The Holy Spirit is the third Person who is Love itself. To let him operate in our lives, in order to cope with crisis, is to plunge oneself in loving the neighbors, in the community. Love gives light and he who does not love is not in the light and therefore would be quite incapable to overcome his crises.
There is no need to search for the Kingdom as something still to come to overcome one’s own crisis. Wherever one lives the Kingdom is always within reach. Whoever cares for his/her brothers and sisters and serves them joyfully, wherever they may be, already lives in the Kingdom, it has already arrived. And therefore, he will likely to overcome his crises in due time. Here is a little story by Albert Schweitzer to illustrate the point of a man who wants the Kingdom of God:
One day while the a monk was just doing the dishes, an angel came and told him, “The Lord sends me personally to tell you your time is up, you are called to God’s eternal Kingdom.” The little brother joyfully said, “What a surprise, I am really grateful that the Lord does remember me. But, dear angel, as you can see, there are so many dishes left, I cannot just leave now. You’ll certainly agree I would be very ungrateful to my brothers here to leave all this work undone and just disappear. Perhaps the Good Lord could postpone my eternity until I am finished with this work.” The angel looked understandingly into his eyes and said, “You’re right, I’ll see what I can do for you and bring your request before the Lord.” After that the angel disappeared, and the brother finished his dishes and many other things afterwards.
One day when the brother was in the garden weeding and digging, the angel appeared again. The little brother just pointed with his hoe at all the unfinished patches and said to the angel, “See for yourself how many weeds are growing here. Can’t God’s eternal Kingdom wait just a little longer?” The angel smiled and quietly disappeared. The brother weeded the whole garden and dug up the patches and planted them anew. And many other things he did too.
One afternoon he was working in the hospital nursing the sick. Just as he was giving a drink to a patient suffering from high fever, the angel once again stood before him. The little brother spread his arms out seeking understanding, trying to catch the angel’s attention to make him see all the sick he still had to take care of. The angel disappeared instantly.
When the brother came home that evening, he lay down on his hard bed, exhausted from all the work. Then he thought about the angel and all the time he had bargained for. Suddenly he felt old and dreadfully tired. He knelt down in his cell and started praying, “Lord, could you send your angel once again now! This time he would be welcome.” Hardly had he said that when the angel was right at his side. “If you take me now, this time I’m more than ready to go with you to enter God’s Kingdom,” he said to the angel. The angel looked deep into his eyes the way only angels can -and with a smile said to the little brother, “Where do you think you have been all this time?” (A. L. Balling, Sehnsuclit nach dL’m, was bleiht, pp. 136-137)
D. To live it with Christ
The Pauline perspective sees conversion happening when Christ is taking shape in us (Eph 3.14-19). Indwelling is the endpoint towards which all conversion must be directed. Conversion means a turning to Christ and accepting salvation from him. According to Colossians all human beings are created in the image of Christ. They carry in themselves his image as their true “hidden self.” Thus we read: “The mystery is; Christ lives in you, the glory to come” (Col 1:27). From this perspective conversion means letting Christ take shape in us and leading the person from mere image into likeness.
There once was a sculptor working hard with his hammer and chisel on a large block of marble. A little boy who was watching him saw nothing more than large and small pieces of stones falling away left and right. He had no idea what was happening. But when the boy returned to the studio a few weeks later, he saw to his great surprise a large, powerful lion sitting in the place where the marble had stood. With great excitement the boy ran to the Sculptor and said, “Sir, tell me, how did you know there was a lion in the marble?” (H. Nouwen, Clowning in Rome, p.87)
Am I able to see the ‘lion’ in the marble, the image of Christ in the often formless and ugly appearances of people? Am I able to see this image of Christ, the cross in the crisis I encounter? And when I have seen it, am I willing to make it visible? Could I love Him in this crises and rise with Him? Conversion means SEEING the image in which God has created me and the reality into which he wants to transform me, and then MAKING VISIBLE what I see.
E. To think differently: “To look at reality with the eyes of Jesus”
According to the Greek word metanoia, conversion means thinking differently, looking at reality the way Jesus did. It means accepting his perspective and his frame of reference, using his “spectacles” when looking at the world and human reality.
Some years ago NASA sent into space a satellite, programmed to get as close to Mars as possible before sending pictures back to earth. The satellite reached its destination. The command was given to start taking pictures. But then they discovered a magnetic dust storm raging on Mars that made it impossible to photograph the surface of the planet. It was at this point that scientists arranged a combination of lenses and filters for the camera which made it possible to penetrate the obstacles and obtain excellent pictures of the planet and its surface.
Conversion enables us to by-pass the surface glare, to grasp the depth of reality and to see things as they really are. It helps us to discover the real nature and importance of events in the setting of God’s final plan for this world and the direction he is assigning to human history.
Being converted means being equipped with the right lenses and filters, With them in place we are able to get beneath the surface of things, to see through any dust or obstacles that hinder a clear view, and to understand and judge reality accordingly.
Conversion means ultimately accepting Jesus’ world-view. It means looking at the world through his eyes. He alone had the right view. He demonstrated through his life how God looks at human beings, at the world, at plants, at animals and at creation as a whole. Jesus revealed God as a father who goes after each one of us with loving concern and care (Lk 15), who cares for the birds in the sky and the grass in the field (Mt 6:25-35), who embraces the “little ones” and identifies with them (Mk 10:13-16).
Being converted and to overcome crises means, therefore, to having a different, but ultimately the only, correct view of reality. One who looks at the world with the eyes of faith does not see less but more. Faith is not a distortion of reality; it puts things in the right perspective. It lets me see connections and enables me to see the ultimate ground of all reality. It shows me where this turbulent and seemingly directionless world is moving. It enables me to hold on to the claim of the Bible that the jigsaw puzzle which we call history and creation can be put together into a beautiful design even if many pieces do not fit together at all in the present state of things. Just like the poor jeweler in the story, seeing the intricate pattern in the prayer rug that offered him the road to freedom, so we are challenged to look beyond the blurred images that we are often faced with.
A poor but honest jeweler was arrested for a crime he never committed. He was placed in a high and well-protected prison in the center of the city. One day, after he had been imprisoned for months, his wife came to the main gate. She told the guards how her husband, the poor jeweler, was a devout and prayerful man. He would be lost without his simple prayer rug. Would they not allow him to have this single possession? The guards agreed that it would be harmless and gave him his prayer rug. Five times daily he would unroll his rug and pray.
Weeks passed, and one day the jeweler said to his jailers, ‘I am bored sitting here day after day with nothing to do. I am a good jeweler and, if you will let me have some pieces of metal and some simple tools, I will make you jewelry. You could then sell what I make in the bazaar and add to your low salaries as jailers. I ask for little -just something to fill the idle hours and keep my skill in practice
The poorly-paid jailers agreed that it would be a good arrangement. Each day they brought the jeweler some bits of silver and metal and some simple tools Each night they would remove the tools and metal and take home tile jewelry that he had made. Days grew into weeks, weeks into months. One bright morning when they came to the jeweler’s cell, they found it empty. No sign was found of the prisoner or how he had escaped from this well protected prison.
Some time later, the real criminal was arrested for the crime the poor jeweler had been falsely accused of. One day in the city’s bazaar, long after that, one of the guards saw the ex-prisoner, the jeweler. Quickly explaining that the real criminal had been caught, he asked the jeweler how he had escaped. The jeweler proceeded to tell the amazing story.
His wife had gone to the main architect who had designed the prison. She obtained from him the blueprints of the cell doors and tile locks. She then had a design woven into the prayer rug Each day as he prayed, his head would touch the rug. Slowly, he began to see that there was a design, within a design, within another design, and that it was the design of the lock of his cell door. From the bits of leftover metal and his simple tools, he fashioned a key and escaped! (W. J. Bausch, Storytelling, p.204-205)
These images, like new lenses or new glasses are relative, but they all indicate a profound change in the person who opens himself or herself to the new reality, the breaking-in of the Kingdom of God, allowing it to determine the direction of his or her life once we experience a crisis. One’s whole attitude towards any crises and his conversion for the Kingdom of God will be different depending on whether the Kingdom is seen first as something beautiful that calls for our full attention, or whether it is first of all a call to repentance, to leave old ways of doing and living The continual awareness that Kingdom and conversion belong together is important. The preaching of the Kingdom: to total love for God expressed in the love of neighbors, is always connected with the call to turn towards it, to let its power into our lives. Since the Kingdom of God has become a reality that constantly breaks into this world and radiates into our life, encompassing all creation, the call for conversion will always accompany any crises. Conversion is, therefore, not something that happens once and for all, but a demand that asks for a continuous response. We can indeed say that whenever Jesus preaches the Kingdom, conversion which we have to decide because we have the freedom, is always an essential element of his message and he allows crises to happen to see always the essence of things.
Even sin, the greatest of all crises, must be judged in the light of the coming Kingdom of God. Sin means that we refuse to let the power of the Kingdom determine the direction of our lives. The Kingdom offered by our Lord wants to free us from the constant temptation to be our own masters and to determine the course of the world according to our own way of thinking. Only when God becomes the Lord of our whole life and the Lord of the whole universe will the fullness of the Kingdom be accomplished and we will learn to cope all crises.
